I'll be honest. Hearing both your stories, I think she was being harsh to you just now... but you were being almost as bad by shouting back at her.

[He's seen bad things happen when people get into heated arguments with one another. It just... never ends well.]

I don't think it's your fault for what happened while you were under the amulet's spell. I mean, if it was possessive and manipulative by itself, and it didn't seem to fully take hold of you until the Gala, what could you do?